I LOVE stumbling upon new people while I am traveling! Traveling offers the best opportunity to strike a conversation- for whatever reason. It puts you on equal terms with everyone around you. You are all leaving one place to go to another. You are all in motion yet exactly where you are meant to be. SO, one can say that when you meet people while traveling it is meant to be. How else can you justify a new friend as a result of a missed flight or seeing an old friend as a result of a 3 hour lay over.
This is exactly what happened to me on Sunday 🙂
Location: George Bush Intercontinental Airport; Houston, TX — considered a “city within a city”, consisting of 5 passenger terminals, the odds of meeting someone are well– slim to none, that is, unless it is destine to happen! En route to Little Rock, Arkansas via San Diego, I landed at Gate C 21 but soon realized my flight left from B 81 – 3 hours later. First on my list: Coffee. In search of a Starbucks I decided to go ahead and take the train to Terminal B. With the sound of my black heeled boots echoing along my stroll, I rolled my carry on in pursuit of a caffeine fix. That is, until I realized… there was no Starbucks in Terminal B!!! It seemed like a cruel joke, especially since I was losing more steam by the second. To my dismay, the Starbucks was in Terminal C… gate 35. With hours still to kill, I hopped back on the train. Why not, right? I was a woman on a mission.
And… mission accomplished. Now armed with my $4.05 Grande Skinny Vanilla Latte and Dark Chocolate Graham crackers in hand, I searched the halls for an outlet to set up camp with my lap top. I found a table to share with another traveler at Gate 35 and connected with the free wireless streaming from The Presidents Club… and logged on to Facebook. For whatever reason, I chose to update my status with my location. That’s when, at the exact same time a Facebook friend, Rachel, turned on her phone when landing at Gate 34 at the Houston Airport. What are the odds, right?
We exchanged a few posts and hoped maybe we would cross paths! And then…what began as a cup of coffee was now coffee talk with an old friend!!! Turned out, we were in the same area of the airport and now, got to hang out for the first time in 10 years. Growing up, our families were the best of friends. Rachel being the baby of the bunch. Now, here she was, in Grad School at UNC getting her MBA in Marketing with a future internship at Hershey’s Corporate in the not so distant future…. and the last time I saw her she was a Freshman in High School, not to mention I think I taught her in Sunday School It was SO FUN to sit and chat as two adults, she heading home for Spring Break and me on my way to a new career.
Leaving Rachel with a renewed traveling spirit, I headed back to B 81 to wait out the rest of my layover. After a few calls to friends, I finally made myself mosey over towards B 81, only to realize I was now flying out of B 83… so I sat in the middle, B 82. Seems logical, right?
For the longest time, no one sat next to me. Then, as if by fate, a lovely woman, a little older than my Mother, with dangling Buddha earrings, reading a book on the topic of Souls and the Afterlife, casually sat to my right. She didn’t notice that I had already noticed her book… but I had, it was the first thing I saw. At that point, I was curious and merely waiting for the right moment to spark a conversation. When the attendant began to ask for volunteers to give up their seats, I popped the question, “so what happens if no one gives up their seat?” This lead to her sharing her story of her day: she missed her 1 PM flight and 7 hours later… was patiently waiting, hence the reason she could not only NOT give up her seat, but a reason the flight was overbooked!!! That’s when I pointed out that ‘it happens for a reason’ and she quickly assured me she already knew that. She followed with a story about the woman she met that day as a result of missing her flight. In the book store. Only 2 cozy seats. The woman also had a 7 hour lay over so they ended up having lunch, shared conversation and exchanged information before parting ways! Here she was, sharing her own Stranger To Friend story with me… so I then told her about my site… only… the wireless was not free??? What? How is it that it was free at the exact moment I was meant to be in touch with Rachel and now I couldn’t share my site? I was baffled… and it seemed to make the story that much better I then mentioned that I noticed the book she was reading and that I, too, have a Spiritual Medium. She didn’t need to tell me she did. I could already tell. And, I was right. We were having an AMAZING conversation about life and friendship 🙂
By the time I parted ways with Sherie Lemnios, my new Zumba Instructor friend that was originally from NY but called Norfolk, VA home, I had given her the name of my Medium she planned to call and she has also promised to write me on this website. Of course the internet didn’t work; I was not meant to show her my site, she was meant to find it on her own. She stayed true to her word… she posted a comment to my last blog post this morning- starting my day with a smile 🙂 I LOVE IT!
There are many ways we can try to plan how to spend a 3 hour layover. We can sit at a bar and enjoy a beer, people watch, shop for souvenirs, talk to friends on the phone. No matter what we chose, it still becomes a part of the journey.
— on a side note, I need to mention Sherry Caldwell that I met on my plane ride back to San Diego last week. With her Aussie Sweatshirt on her lap and freshly updated Little Rock accent, she was on her way back to Brisbane to finish her last 1.5 years of Grad School for International Business. She emailed me this morning and asked me to be her Facebook friend. Naturally, I accepted and told her we met so I have another excuse to head back to OZ 🙂 Let’s hope this journey continues, too!!!

Once again, another great chapter in a great life! And featuring my 2 favorite babysitters…love it! Keep on writing!!!!
Ok – Sherrie Lemnios here – I finally have time to write my version of what happened last Sunday, Feb. 21, in the Houston airport. Yes, I missed my flight to Norfolk (but I live on the Outer Banks, NC) and had to wait 7 hours for the next flight. I found a cozy alcove off a book store with two comfy chairs and as soon as I sat down in one of them Phyllis sat in the other. She also had a 7 hour wait because she purposely got bumped from her flight. We started talking immediately and talked for hours until we got some dinner with her food vouchers. After we parted, I went back to the cozy alcove and another much younger woman started talking to me who also had a 7 hour wait in the airport. She was returning from her job, doing biological research on a ship in the Gulf, and was so excited about her new boyfriend who was also on the ship for their second cruise that she jumped up and started showing me pictures of him on her camera. We talked for a little while and she told me how much she was enjoying this stage of their relationship. So I left her in a great mood myself, to go to the gate for my flight and that’s when I met Carlyn and our encounter ensued. She is so full of energy, we had a great conversation packed into a few minutes, as we both kept on eye on her gate which was boarding.
I must say, I have continued to feel uplifted by my experience that day in the Houston airport and synchronistic things keep happening. The next night, at home, I went to an arts council gathering and connected with 3 people who have led to other things happening for me. It’s true, what Carlyn says, that if you are open to what happens next, the universe brings you what you need. I also won a wine tasting for 6 worth $800 from pledging to my public radio station just before I left home! Yes, everything happens for a reason! I am so glad I met Carlyn ~ she brings a smile to my face every time I think of her!
Yeah, totally look me up! Love meeting new people and LOVE showing them around this new country I now call home! So much to see, do, and share! Looking forward to your visit Carlyn!!! 🙂
WOW What a day. New boyfriend? That’s really fit our conversation! Make you think? The rest of my trip was quite with alot of reading. Except the man across the aisle had gas. He’d pass and I’d cut on my air vent, He’d pass and I’d open my air vent and so on…. Then he finally looked over at me and we both broke out in laughter. Oh well, If that’s my Karma… I’ve got to give some thought to that also.. Thanks for sharing your story. Phyl